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Missing Towers - We will not forget!
Stan on top of the World Trade Center-July 2001

Stan's Memories from July 2001

 

It was a clear, beautiful morning in July of 2001. I will never forget the breathtaking view as I stood on top of the World Trade Center. Two months later those memories were shattered forever as I watched those towers fall.

Many people enjoyed that view through the years, so what made it so personal and unique for me? I will answer that question by explaining how I came to be on those towers, how that tragedy has impacted us, and how our future has changed. In many ways we now have A DIFFERENT VIEW.

 

I married a woman from New York named Adele. She was so excited to take me for my first-ever trip to New York to visit her home and her former workplace. Her workplace for 10 years was on the 71st floor of the WTC. During the 1993 terrorist bombing Adele was interviewed on TV after walking down the stairs through all the smoke. After that original attack, Mario Cuomo, New York 's state governor, told journalists: "We all have that feeling of being violated. No foreign people or force has ever done this to us. Until now we were invulnerable." That statement describes my feelings as we adjust to the reality of war with the terrorists who want to destroy our way of life. Let's discuss the impact of that event on our lives.

 

I am sure all of you can remember the numbness and disbelief you felt as you watched the horror of that day. We had a TV on our floor that morning for training and turned it on when we heard the World Trade Center had been hit by a plane. Was it a terrible accident? As soon as I saw the second plane hit the second tower I knew how it would affect my wife and I left to pick her up at work. We went home and watched the news in disbelief as her buildings fell. Some of her close friends who worked nearby were emailing us photos as the events unfolded. We wanted to be there with them, yet were glad we weren't at the same time. It was an agonizing two weeks before we learned that most of her closest friends survived the attack. Those were HER towers and HER friends. This was very personal!

 

In May 2002, we returned to Ground Zero. The changes to the landscape and emotions were dramatic. We frequently hear from family and friends how their lives have changed. Daily life is now more complicated because of increased security procedures and restrictions. Most people have accepted those inconveniences as a necessary way of life.

 

Our economy also suffered a serious setback. Adele was one of the many statistics who lost her job as companies struggled to rebound. After 2 years she has not been able to find a comparable job in technology management to replace the income we enjoyed before the attacks.

 

How can we put that historical event in perspective and enjoy our future? We visit New York City at least once each year and personally observe how the city is healing and rebuilding. It is an eerie feeling to stand at the actual site of the tragedy and wonder if it could happen again.

 

There was no way we could have prepared for the emotions and consequences after that attack. I appreciate the actions President Bush has taken to respond. I will always support any leader who has the vision and determination to protect us and assure my children have the opportunity to create positive memories of this great country. I am discouraged by all of the pessimism and attacks in our current election campaign. Because this is such a critical time for our country, I have created this website to share some of the optimism that gets overshadowed.

 

The recent anniversary of 911 caused us to reflect on the past, present, and future impact of that event on our lives. I am thankful for the amazing photos and memories of that breathtaking view 3 years ago. I am sad when I see the pictures and the memories of the lives that were changed that day. We must all work together so we never have to experience those feelings again in our future.